3 Pieces Of Advice to Build Confidence for Public Speaking



I do a lot of public speaking, and there’s no arguing that I’m pretty good at it. I hit the stage as a 30-something sometime in 2006 and it was instantaneous: I loved the stage and the stage loved me back. It came naturally to me, so I play to that strength. It’s why I come off as someone who is very comfortable on stage or in front of the camera. I just love it.

I know a lot of you out there aren’t always the biggest fans of public speaking. In fact, it’s probably the number one fear of many people. Whether it’s a keynote or a short presentation, it takes a lot of nerve to get up in front of an audience. I think the problem is that a lot of you are overthinking it. So, here are a few tips to help build some confidence and make public speaking feel natural to you.

  1. Stick to What You Know

There’s a really good reason why some of my keynotes are so good and it’s because I stick to what I know. The reason why I don’t need slides and why I’m so comfortable being in front of the camera on “The #AskGaryVee Show” is because I stay in my lane.

The problem arises when people try to fake the funk: they try to talk about topics or claim they’re experts before ever doing anything. What happens is that when they get up on stage and try to talk about their execution, they get stuck. It’s why I don’t feel comfortable answering questions about topics like foreign policy or Bitcoin. Whether on stage or in front of the camera, I’m very transparent about not talking about something I don’t know about.

As long as you stick to your personal experiences and expertise, you can have the confidence to go up and talk about your insights. As long as you’re a practitioner of what you preach, you’ll be able to voice your opinion eloquently because it’s backed up by your executions.

  1. Walk Into the Room With Humility

If you’ve ever been to or listened to any of my keynotes, you probably know that I always try to get a read of the room to see how many people already know who I am. I usually ask them, “Raise your hand if you don’t know who I am.” I assume that 90 percent of the room doesn’t (and I am always humbled by the 10 oercent who do). Why do I do this? I do it because I want to take that few seconds to take the temperature of the room. I want to get a feel for the audience’s grasp on what the topic and I want to see what their experience is.

Here’s the thing: the world is big. There is a lot of stuff out there and you can’t assume what the audience knows or doesn’t know. Whether you walk in and feel like you’re in over your head or you feel overqualified on a topic, stick to what you know and be humble about it.

  1. Communicate the Way You’re Most Comfortable With Communicating

Another good reason why I don’t like using cue cards of slides is because I’m just not a good reader. It never comes naturally to me and I’m not going to start trying now. Even reading my kids a bedtime story feels intimidating. One look at a copy of “Good Night Moon,” and I’m a mess.

I would be crippled if I had to read cue cards. But, if you like the idea of cue cards or if having slides to lean against is natural to you, then do that. You have to know how you best communicate and use it to your advantage. Make sure that you’re giving your presentation in the most organic way possible. If that means clicking through slides, standing with notes at a podium, or just winging it onstage, then who am I to say not to do it? Make it feel natural because it is natural.

P.S. The single biggest reason people are concerned about public speaking is because they worry what other people think of them. The quicker you start learning how to fix that issue and learn to be comfortable with yourself; you become a much better public speaker. Heck, you’ll become a much better and happier human being.




Reprinted by permission.

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About the author: Gary Vaynerchuk

Gary Vaynerchuk is the CEO and founder of Vaynermedia, one of the world’s fastest growing digital agencies. He’s also a serial entrepreneur, 3-time New York Times Bestselling Author, partner at venture capital fund VaynerRSE, and was named to both Crain’s and Fortune’s 40 Under 40 lists.
For more by entrepreneur Gary Vaynerchuk, check out his new book #AskGaryVee: One Entrepreneur’s Take on Leadership, Social Media, & Self-Awareness and visit GaryVaynerchuk.com.

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